For women born in 1963 (Year of the Rabbit), their marital life may be generally stable but with potential challenges in their later years.
General Characteristics:
They are gentle, adaptable, and know how to utilize resources around them.
They are good at maintaining relationships.
They are often gentle and easy to get along with but are actually very strong-willed and will pay the price to achieve their goals.
Marriage and Relationships:
Their emotions may not be stable, and they might experience multiple marriages or relationships. They tend to marry later in life, usually after the age of thirty.
In 2019, their relationship fortune was stable, but they needed to control themselves when dealing with the opposite sex. In 2020, they started to have ten years of 桃花运 (love luck), during which their feelings may be erratic and difficult to stabilize.
Relationship with Children:
They may only have one biological child, and their relationship with their children may not be close. Communication with their children decreases, especially after the children turn eighteen, and they gradually drift apart.
In old age, children establish their own families and careers, and the emotional connection becomes weak. Therefore, their children's fortune in their later years is not good. Although they are financially well-off, they will feel lonely spiritually and emotionally. Even when they are sick, their children may not be able to take care of them.
When they get older, they will feel particularly lonely because they lack close relationships with their children and partners. The children's relationship with them is not close. Once the children have their own families and children, they will gradually drift away from them and may only return home once a year, which makes them feel lonely.
Because of their self-esteem, they are unwilling to take the initiative to ask their children when they will come home to visit. Therefore, as they get older, they face an increasingly difficult life with no one to accompany them and cannot enjoy family happiness.
How to Improve Relationships in Later Life:
It is crucial to establish or strengthen their relationship with their children in their later years. They can take the initiative to contact their children, connect with their feelings, and jointly develop plans and arrangements for spending their later years.
They can also consider participating in more social activities, such as senior citizen universities and square dancing, to expand their social circle and reduce loneliness. In the pursuit of happiness in their later years, they need to actively seek and create opportunities to support and accompany themselves.